This week, I haven’t been in the office because the redundancy consultation process is taking place.
Being at home, alone with no distractions, means that I’ve been confronted with the realities of being ‘jobless’ for the first time.
Vulnerable is the word that I would use to describe how I’m feeling right now. Although I’m a firm believer in the fact that everything happens for a reason, I really wish I had a crystal ball so I could see how things will actually pan out over the next few months…
When I feel like this, I try to regain a sense of control by taking action.
I’ve updated my CV, registered with recruiters, uploaded my CV onto job sites, and submitted applications for all relevant roles out there at the moment. But, now what?
Now, I must do what I should’ve done in the first place – slow down and give myself time to process this latest turn of events.
Alex reminded me of this when I voiced my concerns about not knowing what to do next. He smiled and told me that I have two months to find another job, I don’t need to make it happen on the first day…
The Angels reinforced this when I pulled an oracle card entitled ‘Patience, please’. Here, it was explained that what I’m asking for is coming about, but I must have patience because there are unseen factors that must occur first.
Is there something going on in your life where you feel a little lost and not in control? Do you also need this reminder to slow down and take a breath?
Tomorrow, I meet with the CEO to find out my fate; redundancy or a significant change in job role await.
In uncertain times like these it can be hard to remain positive, but we must always trust that the Universe knows best. It will provide us with the assurances that everything is working out for our highest good if we’re willing to see and hear them.
I visited one of my favourite bookshops, Foyles, in London yesterday.
Here, I sought out the Mind, Body & Spirit section where I’d spent many a lunch hour when I worked nearby. I browsed the books, taking in the wonderful new-book smell that filled the air, before picking up a copy of Jack Canfield’s Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul and settling on an exert titled: What Do You Want to Be?
In this particular story, Reverend Teri Johnson talked about a conversation she’d had with her young daughter.
Her daughter asked what she thought was a simple question, what do you want to be when you grow up, but Teri was somewhat confused. As a woman who is already a pastor and the mother of five children, she gave these as her answers, but her daughter soon grew frustrated by this.
It became clear that Teri didn’t understand her daughter’s question because her daughter still saw infinite possibilities waiting for Teri in her future. Whether she wanted to be a ballet dancer or an astronaut, her daughter didn’t see Teri’s age and life decisions to date as restrictions. She believed Teri could still go after anything she wanted.
This was just the reminder I needed and I’m very glad I stumbled across this story.
Have you had any signs from the Universe to remind you that things are working out for your highest good?
Sometimes when it feels like the world is getting to be too much, expressing gratitude for what we have can help to pull us back into the present.
It’s easier said than done when our minds feel like they’re constantly gravitating towards the negative, but, no matter how bad a day might seem overall, there are always little things that we can be grateful for throughout.
Here’s 20 little things that have made me smile recently:
- Alex kissing me on the forehead
- Finding a parking space right next to my office
- Fresh daffodils bringing some sunshine to the living room
- Relaxing into a hot bath full of Epsom salts and lavender oil
- Doing yoga when I’m not in the mood, only to find that it’s a relaxing practice today
- Eating food I haven’t had for ages and rediscovering why I like it so much
- Belly laughing with friends
- Someone kindly letting me out of a junction straightaway
- Feeling the warmth of the sun on my face as I walk across the Tyne Bridge
- A meeting being cancelled so I gained an hour of my day back
- Green light after green light as I drive home from work
- Daydreaming about where I would go if I had to money to travel
- Coming across a quote on Pinterest that was just what I needed to hear
- Finding exactly what I’m looking for in a charity shop
- Putting on my pyjamas as soon as I get home
- The wind blowing a gale outside while I’m tucked up in bed
- Making homemade soup with what’s in the cupboards and it tasting delicious
- Setting my out of office reply because I’m off tomorrow
- Closing the front door after a long week at work and knowing I don’t have to leave the house unless I want to tomorrow
- A song coming on the radio that I haven’t heard in years
Can you take inspiration from this and recognise the little things that make you smile each day?
This week, the news headlines have been filled with messages of shock surrounding Kobe Bryant’s untimely death.
A basketball star, famous for his endeavours on the court, died in a helicopter crash, together with his daughter and seven others.
The news has shaken America, along with the rest of the world.
The premature death of all those on board the helicopter that day has reminded us just how fleeting life can be. There are no guarantees that anyone has an abundance of tomorrows in their future, and moments like these give us cause to reflect.
Are you sure that everyone that you hold dear knows how you much you care?
Take some time this week to cherish your nearest and dearest and make sure you also take a moment to remember those you, too, have lost.
I recently finished reading the first book in the All Souls Trilogy by Deborah Harkness.
By reading, I mean I physically held a book in my hands – something that I rarely do.
As a child, I loved reading. I was always walking to the library at the edge of our estate to pick up yet another book. I loved to get lost in the stories written by the likes of Enid Blyton or Fiona Kelly.
Technically, I still read a lot because I have an Audible subscription, but it’s not the same. I like Audible because I can listen whilst getting on with other things, meaning reading is no longer an all encompassing activity that helps me to relax.
Reading A Discovery of Witches and immersing myself in a world of witches, vampires and daemons, with tales of love and strife woven throughout was just what I needed to find my passion for reading again.
With the stresses of daily life always surrounding us, it’s important that we have ways to pull ourselves out of our own heads so we can properly relax.
Reading is one of those things for me but I’d forgotten how to enjoy it fully.
What’s something that you love doing but haven’t done properly in ages?
Give it a go this week and see how you feel 😊
Today, I pulled the most beautiful oracle card from the Ask An Angel deck.
It read ‘Battle’.
Initially, I assumed the word had negative connotations but I realised the image didn’t trigger this same reaction. Upon reading the description, I found that the message what just what I needed to hear – as it so often is.
In essence, it explained that heroes battling dragons stand in the face of danger and surrender to a higher state of consciousness. They do so at the expense of all ego attachments such as pride, greed and compulsion.
The hero goes on a journey to face the shadow in order to bring back the good, and it is time for you to go on this journey.
It asked if you had “fallen asleep” in the mundane routine of life and needed an adventure. If so, this is your sign and it’s up to you to decide where you want to be and what you’re willing to fight for.
Does this resonate with anyone else?
I know I needed to hear this today and I assume someone else does too 🙂
Anyone else follow Joe Wicks (@thebodycoach) on Instagram?
I always find him to be very motivating, especially when he’s tired with a new-born baby and he’s still encouraging everyone to move their body.
Today he reminded us to:
‘Stop telling yourself reasons not to exercise and remind yourself how good you’ll feel afterwards and how much more energy you’ll have afterwards.’
January is a good month for me and exercise; partly because of the New Year motivation and partly because Yoga with Adriene always does a 30 day challenge – and I need this kind of accountability to stick with it.
Doing the YWA challenge works well for me because the daily videos are posted at 6am meaning I can do it in the mornings before work. I never get sweaty enough to require washing my hair afterwards – a serious bonus! And, I don’t have to think about which exercise video to choose on YouTube because that’s decided for me. In short, all my excuses not to exercise are stopped in their tracks.
And guess what? A week in, I really do feel better!
Don’t get me wrong, I still hate my life a little when my alarm goes off an hour before I actually have to be up, but in no time, I’m happily settled on my yoga mat, focusing on my breath and I feel good. Even after today’s video which, in my opinion, was crunches hell masquerading as yoga… I still feel good.
I know that when you’re already feeling exhausted, exercising is the last thing on your mind, but Joe is right that you do feel better afterwards.
So, with that in mind, how are you going to move your body today?
It’s arrived – the day where we all get to start afresh with a clean slate.
We’re all waking up and feeling excited at the prospect of what we’ll achieve this year, or at least we will be once the hangover subsides…
But, it’s not just a new year, it’s a new decade and the world is our oyster!
Let’s make sure 2020 is a great year by creating goals that are centre around what is going to make us happy.
Scrap the New Year’s Resolution that you make every year and give up on by mid-January. Instead, focus on small goals that you can build on. You don’t have to make huge shifts in the first two weeks to feel like you’re achieving something! Design your goals so you’re making small changes in the right direction.
You want to lose weight? Make a resolution to start walking for 20 minutes on your lunch break or have a healthy smoothie for breakfast every morning.
You want to save up for an amazing holiday? Make a resolution to choose to save the money instead of going to after work drinks on a Friday or having a takeaway on the weekend.
You want to spend more time with friends and family? Make a resolution to leave work on time at least once a week or to ask to work from home one day a week so you don’t waste time commuting.
Whatever it is, don’t try to go from zero to a hundred in a day! New Year’s Resolutions are a recipe for disaster because we try to make too many changes all at once.
Yes, 2020 can be a great year for us if we push ourselves, but we have a whole year to get to where we want to be. Let’s be realistic about what we can achieve in the short term.
I wondered what to write when I realised a blog post would fall on Christmas Day, but then I read this from the lovely @bodyposipanda on Instagram and I knew I couldn’t say it any better.
“Today, I want to hold a little space for the people who aren’t feeling merry or joyful and might be wondering how they’re gonna get through the holiday season.
The people who lost someone this year and are bracing themselves for the first time without them.
The people who are going home to guaranteed body shaming and fatphobia.
The people whose mental health issues won’t magically disappear just because it’s Christmas.
The people with eating disorders who are worried about holding onto recovery when everything is so food-centred this time of year.
The people who are struggling to afford every day life and might go into debt trying to keep up with celebrations.
The queer kids who aren’t able to fully be themselves around family because it might not be safe.
The people gathering strength to fight against racist comments round the dinner tables.
The people who don’t drink anymore and will have to keep explaining why because who doesn’t drink over the holidays?
The carers, the retail workers, the hospital staff, everyone working extra time under extra pressure for not enough extra pay.
Anyone who’s just feeling overwhelmed and like they can’t keep up with it all.
I see you. And I want you to know that it’s totally okay to feel exactly how you feel. To get through this year however you can. To protect and preserve yourself whenever you are able to. And to take this season a day at a time.”